Modern norms or preferences Experts Can be Unkind

Long ago I was watching a documentary about upcoming fashion apprentices and one of the fashion apprentices was slightly heavier than the thin rake pictures that they always want to portray. The industry experts proceeded to insult her with some fervor by her calling her unfocused and weak. At one point the poor lady was crying. The public sympathized and defiantly decided to keep her in through selection system even though she was not being rated highly by the industry experts. One of the industry experts then went into overkill and she started shouting at the lady at every rehearsal. At one point she was given employment and then the fashion industry expert intervened and ensured that this lady never got employed.

What really annoyed me was that the fashion industry expert had been in the industry and was not all that young herself. Surely this woman could comprehend the kinds of external influences that the fashion apprentices were going through? Surely she could appreciate that constant shouting was never going to help the lady but was only going to push her back further and further back into depression? Why lack of even the most basic humanity? Why the aggression and animosity? In any case the fashion industry expert herself did not look that attractive to begin with. This then made her insults and complaint such a bore. People might even begin to think that she was jealous of the young woman and that is why she reacted the way she did.
I then reflected on the incident and thought about how modern norms or preferences people can be unsympathetic to one another especially where it concerns appearance issues. The ideal is out of reach for the majority of people on the planet so it makes you wonder why they keep pushing it forward as a possibility. They create blatantly unrealistic modern norms or preferences ideals that have no relevance to the real world but only serve to emphasize the challenges of ladies who have weight challenges.

Sometimes you even begin to believe that modern norms or preferences experts are some of the most challenging factors that ordinary ladies have. They demand so much of the modern lady yet they do not make efforts to try and get them to be supported in any way. Being this is the only acceptable social norm. Conformity is a must or else you will be placed firmly on the heap that contains those who have failed to meet the stringent demands of the fashion industry. We then begin to wonder why people become obsessed by unhealthy diets and get anorexia. Our unkindness and forced standards have made them desperate to conform.

Now I want to know what you all think. Have you ever been in a situation where you felt that you were pressurized by the stringent modern norms or preferences? Have you had a fashion professional be particularly nasty to you? Do you think that they do have a point in their quest for body perfection? Please tell me about your thoughts because that is one way we can educate one another. I dislike this thing about cruelty to slightly fat people so I would really appreciate some feedback from you guys.

Joining groups such as weight watchers

When you are trying to lose weight it is better that you do it in a group because you can then give encouragement to one another. Some people have experienced great success when they have joined groups such as weight watchers. These are professional outfits that provide care and counseling to anyone who is able to and willing to follow their programs. People of all sorts of backgrounds and shapes and sizes are then welcome to make a contribution to the group and obtain some benefits from trying to participate in the weight loss program. I am one of those people who believe that this is far better than trying to go it alone.

It avoids the problems of loneliness. The idea that someone is lonely can inhibit their energy levels and they may even lose the motivation to follow the program. When you are walking alone you are the only guarantor of your success. When you attempt to make excuses for not following your diet, there is no one to take it up with you and prevent you from making up those excuses.

Some people worry about the payments but in my humble opinion, the benefits far outweigh any payments that you could make for the program. There is also the added problem that often these companies are multi dimensional businesses that will try to persuade the customer to buy some of their branded products such as food at rather high prices in order to compensate for the sometimes low level of attendance.
This leads to the worry that sometimes you will not be able to lose the weight as you had planned because you are busy making money for the directors of the company that is pretending to help you. I always advise people that you are not a slave to the dieting company. If you feel that there is something bad about the diet they are doing or that you are not satisfied with, make a complaint at the earliest opportunity.

If they refuse to respond, then you are at liberty to move on to some other programs where they will listen to your concerns. Do not allow yourself to be a victim of the thousands of scams that have been created to trap people who are desperately trying to lose weight. Be forewarned and avoid situations that put you in harm’s way. As long as you understand the dangers associated with the dieting programs, then you are at liberty to choose what suits you best.